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➡️ Watch my online class “From Fantasy to Fulfillment”. Sometimes our fantasies are really confusing and leave us wondering if there's something wrong with us. I promise - there's nothing wrong with you and your fetishes and fantasies are exactly right for you!
➡️ Learn more about hiring a sex worker to fulfill fetishes and fantasies in this PostSecret video from earlier this week.
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Thanks to ADHD and limited bandwidth, I’m using a bit of AI magic to turn my own words into something I actually get out of my head and onto the page. It’s still all me—just with a robot sidekick. Curious how that works? Click here.
